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        <Name>Choosing a Good Negotiator for Your Real Estate Deal</Name>
        <Summary>Negotiation Skills Crucial in Northern Virginia Market</Summary>
        <Description>&lt;h2 style="MARGIN-TOP: 2px"&gt;&lt;img height="200" alt=" " src="http://activerain.com/image_store/uploads/9/0/5/8/4/ar119102054448509.jpg" width="150" align="right" /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When selecting your Realtor to represent you&lt;/strong&gt; in the &lt;a href="http://www.blockrealestategroup.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;purchase or sale of a home in Northern Virginia&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt; there are several criteria that you may look for in terms of that &lt;strong&gt;agent's skills:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Knowledgeable about the area&lt;/strong&gt; and your selected neighborhood&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Understands and can explain&lt;/strong&gt; the real estate &lt;a href="http://activerain.com/blogsview/172485/Buying-a-Home-in" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;purchase&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;a href="http://activerain.com/blogsview/182059/Selling-a-Home-in" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;sales&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt; process&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Connected to and can recommend&lt;/strong&gt; other local service providers such as lenders and inspectors&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;But, above all, you should look for an agent who is skilled in negotiations.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="177" alt=" " src="http://activerain.com/image_store/uploads/8/2/6/2/1/ar119102078012628.jpg" width="243" align="left" /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;According to a survey by the National Association of Realtors&lt;/strong&gt;, today's home buyers and home sellers want a real estate agent who can skillfully negotiate better terms and price for the sale.&amp;nbsp; This is the number one thing that people want in their agents.&amp;nbsp; Yet according to the same 2006 survey, &lt;strong&gt;only 36% of home buyers noted that their agent helped them negotiate better sales contract terms and only 29% said their agent helped negotiate a better price.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Negotiation&lt;/strong&gt; is defined as &amp;quot;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;a discussion intended to produce an agreement&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;.&amp;quot; &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;In the process of purchasing or selling a home, there are numerous instances when negotiations occur.&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;First,&lt;/strong&gt; negotiations are involved before an offer is even submitted on a home to determine a strategy for offering price and terms.&amp;nbsp; &lt;strong&gt;Next&lt;/strong&gt;, there may be negotiations regarding counter-offers.&amp;nbsp; &lt;strong&gt;Once a contract is ratified by both parties, there may still be negotiations based on items that turn up&lt;/strong&gt; in a home inspection, home appraisal results, termite and radon inspections,, and other issues that may arise from time to time.&amp;nbsp; &lt;strong&gt;Almost every clause in the real estate sales agreement can be separately negotiated.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is why it is &lt;strong&gt;crucial to hire a Realtor to represent you who has been trained with good negotiating skills&lt;/strong&gt; and has experience with successful negotiations. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt=" " src="http://cdnll.users1.imagechef.com/ic/stored/users_87/437519/sampfe43b24b0f4ca633.jpg" align="right" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Any Realtor worth their salt can put a home listing on the MLS and place a sign in the yard.&amp;nbsp; Similarly with today's modern GPS systems, very few Realtors will get lost on the road on the way to finding you your next home.&amp;nbsp; But, the &lt;strong&gt;one thing that can really distinguish one agent from the next is their skill and knowledge of negotiation strategy.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In &lt;a target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;Northern Virginia&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, an area where even the &lt;a href="http://activerain.com/blogsview/175304/Condos-in-Alexandria-How" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;smallest condo costs over $200,000&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, and the average home price is around half a million dollars, negotiations are very important.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="131" alt=" " src="http://cdnll.users1.imagechef.com/ic/stored/users_87/437519/samp6c10f74d725ccea2.jpg" width="131" align="left" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Before hiring your next Realtor, please ask them the following two questions&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;When is the last time you took a course on negotiating?&amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;and&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;What books about negotiation have your read in the last 6 months?&amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Here are my answers:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As part of my training as a &lt;a href="http://www.crs.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;Certified Residential Specialist (CRS)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, the most elite designation &lt;strong&gt;awarded to less than 4% of Realtors,&lt;/strong&gt; I participated in an &lt;strong&gt;intense two day course entirely on negotiating skills&lt;/strong&gt; at the end of January 2007.&amp;nbsp; This course taught the art of friendly persuasion and effective negotiating strategies.&amp;nbsp; &lt;a href="http://www.edhatch.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;Ed Hatch&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, the teacher, has trained over 100 audiences a year for the last 17 years and spoken on negotiations internationally throughout the U.S., Brazil, Canada, South Africa, Sweden and the U.K.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="100" alt=" " src="http://activerain.com/image_store/uploads/3/5/8/5/7/ar119102115275853.gif" width="100" align="right" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Additionally, as an attorney&lt;/strong&gt;, I am classically trained in negotiating skills, both in law school and through practice in court, mediation, arbitrations, and client settlements.&amp;nbsp; &lt;strong&gt;I bring this expertise from the legal field to my work in real estate.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Over the last 6 months, I have studied the following books on negotiation:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="180" alt=" " src="http://activerain.com/image_store/uploads/3/5/7/8/9/ar119102121098753.jpg" width="117" align="left" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&amp;quot;Getting to Yes&amp;quot;&lt;/strong&gt; -- this is the seminal piece on negotiating skills by Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton.&amp;nbsp; This book presents the concept of the &amp;quot;&lt;strong&gt;Win Win&amp;quot; Negotiation&lt;/strong&gt; which helps to ensure that both parties walk away feeling like they won and are happy with the results. &lt;strong&gt;Negotiation is NOT manipulation&lt;/strong&gt;.&amp;nbsp; This is key to understand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="213" alt=" " src="http://activerain.com/image_store/uploads/6/6/7/8/9/ar119102124398766.jpg" width="127" align="right" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&amp;quot;You Can Negotiate Anything&amp;quot;&lt;/strong&gt; --&amp;nbsp; this &lt;strong&gt;classic book&lt;/strong&gt; by successful lawyer and negotiating expert Herb Cohen is a &lt;strong&gt;must read&lt;/strong&gt; for anyone involved in any form of negotiations whether in business or in life.&amp;nbsp; The fact is that we are negotiating almost every moment of every day without even realizing it in our business and personal lives.&amp;nbsp; 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